真理 Vs 道理

Recently was working at a place where there all talks for christian leaders from around the globe. And they came across this topic of the crashes between 真理(truth) and 道理(reasoning) . The speaker gave a wonderful example:

"If one day I have an argument with my wife. I presented my thoughts with enough reasoning and it is pretty obvious she is wrong. And then she says: "Okay, you win. Let's divorce."

I would have win a reasoning, but lost a marriage. What use to have so much reasoning then?

At this point, I follow the truth which the bible says. "Husband, love your wife." So even if I have done nothing wrong in this matter, I must apologize. Because the truth tells me to love, yet I choose winning an argument over loving my wife.

When truth and reasoning crashes, what shall we follow?"

Answer is pretty obvious huh?haha and I like this one sentence of his most.

"整天说要争一口气, 有口臭的你还要争" -_-"