To understand

We often been through alot of struggles and hard times, and hoping other people will understand how we feel. From there, we want the desire to be fulfilled. But we can't hold a gun and say "please care about how i feel and what I've been through, or else I'll shoot you".

So when our desire has not been met, we feel even sadder and more hopelessness. And some will try to have others to notice how hard they are struggling. Very often, this creates a negative result.

But in Jesus, where we have love, things are different. We naturally reach out to love and understand others even though we had alot of struggles ourselves. Those are God's love overflowing from us to others.

God put us through hard times, is so that we can understand those who are having it as well.